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Journal 2025.07.26: Guilt and Selfishness

“It’s ok, no matter what happens.” they tell me, but I fear for them anyway. Their logic, reason, and emotional intelligence is some of the most powerful I’ve ever seen. I fear for them — their potential disappointment, sadness, loneliness, heartbreak — they act like their shields are all securely in place but I sense joints in their defenses where pain can seep through. 

Senryū 2025.06.26 #1, #2

So much love given:
surely most will
find its way back home

Love is infinite:
it knows only the limits
our fear imposes

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(I see how much love some others generate and share. I wish they’ll always see as much as possible come back to them.)

Senseless, Creeping, Silent

Senseless fear, senseless fear,
Always waiting near;
Senseless fear, senseless fear,
Destroying what’s held dear.

Creeping fear, creeping fear,
Robbing me of sleep;
Creeping fear, creeping fear,
Crawling in so deep.

Silent fear, silent fear,
Fraying threads so thin;
Silent fear, silent fear,
I fear the day you win.

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June 25, 2025, late; June 26 edits

On platonic soulmates and fear of loss 

Some friends are closer than others. Supposedly, so-called “soulmates” (people often only use that word in the context of romance and sex, but that’s not the only application of the term) can come in various forms, including friends and even family —  I’ve been learning about the concept of “platonic soulmates”, where people have a very close bond with a friend for which there is zero romantic interest or sexual attraction. These are supposedly the friends you can truly be yourself around, who actually, honestly accept you; who you may have a great emotional intimacy with; who are there for you through just about anything imaginable; who help you really discover who you are, both good and bad. They bring so much benefit into your life, and with less up-and-down volatility (better word??) than can come with relationships of a romantic nature. 

I can think of very few people who have come close to this throughout my life…

But I think I may have found one now, and I’m as terrified of losing it as I am grateful to have it.

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